You’re probably better off on the public forum, people can get you in PM and start saying all kinds of crazy shit, or manipulative stuff (backed up with shaming you as inadequate if you express any doubts) and it can’t be fact-checked or subject to general scrutiny, if you see what I mean. Predators love invitations like this!
I’m not saying that’s common on here, 99% of people are just dedicated and serious magicians and in no way out to fuck with you, but if you begin with the public stuff, you can start learning how to give any advice the old sniff test. 