So here’s what ends up happening when you let people get close enough to you…
You create energy cords, and these cords link your souls together. This isn’t inherently a bad thing, but when a relationship goes wrong, let me tell you, it can and has ruin(ed) people’s lives. A cord cutting spell is what it sounds like, it severs these cords, however I honestly recommend plucking them instead of cutting them, because they can reattach themselves to you. You can find some good information about this hear: Purple's Beginner Advice (Basic Magick Energy Exercises) - #7 by Purple
If you want to involve a spirit for this, Archangel Michael is pretty much a go-to spirit for energy cord problems. The Goetic Demon Ipos can sever the emotional bond between you and another person.
And I didn’t literally imply that you may have sold your soul, it was metaphorical. I meant that, if you give your will, your energy, your thoughts, time, to someone else, you’ve essentially your independent existence. I didn’t mean to cause you fright by saying it with that wording, if I did.
I’ll be here. 