I hope what i am saying is somewhat making sense
I would advise that you use the search function for this on the top right corner of the forum, as this is a pretty standard/repeated question on here. If you check this thread, I have a whole list of great success stories involving love and dating that you can browse through and see if any of the spirits/methods used resonate with you and your situation
We also have a handy dandy topic just to collect the popular posts of this topic.
But do use the search with your own keywords to get a more refined result for what you want.