So, a bit of background. Since, i could remember I always been able too feel or sense spirits which elevated in college. Though it was rather low, I also predicted my Junior high school teacher getting arrested for a student/teacher affair. Now too me, i have always been the big girl. Im overweight, and tried too lose weight even in high school, college, and around my 3rd ex. Though i was big, i am sweet and affectionate and wanted too be normal and accepted due too my disability. Though, it painted me as a target for bullying.
I dated three guys in college; first one didn’t give a crap about me and cheated on me and lied too my back. Second, used me for sex though it was my fault since i wanted too know what sex was like. The third, abused me emotional and mental by making me feel worthless, hated when i wanted too cuddle, hated when i surprised him with lingerie, and etc.
Due to this, i felt like i was never going too be good enough even if i lost weight. I read stories about werewolves and incubus or roleplay with my friends about one of the creatures falling in love with my character who was big and was lonely. I do get depressed about it, feeling like i am absolutely monster all because i give love, affection, try too show i can be a good girlfriend or wife by cooking, cleaning, being by there side, helping them, etc.
I would have dreams about being given a relationship by a man name Erik who and shows me a real relationship i desperately wanted but i knew i will never have it.
So, would an incubus want too spend there unholy time with someone who is big that has never been accepted.