I should definitely ask. You’re right. And I will. But I wonder how you talk to a spirit already there? I have a candle shaped into a person made with her name carved into it… would it be enough to light this candle while verbally callIng out to her to grab her attention and interact with me? I would think pendulum use would be ideal here in my case. That is the only “yes “or “no” sort of divination tool I have… unless there is another way to get answers from a spirit. (Forgive me I am still novice.)
I think that would be a sweet sentiment to do for her. I have her eye glasses, a stuffed bunny I bought her to hold as she was passing, and i can place a picture of her. Along with a white candle. I think I’ve read you can also offer them water to drink as well.
But yes, that is all a first before evoking anything. Her house is still very much her grounds.
Now I need to look up warding.