Update regarding this ex… As I spent a while here, I learned about NAP and
did NAP ritual. To take away his magical protection and give him lesson.
Then next day, I received a contents-certified mail to pay $1,500 worth
debt from the surety company, saying otherwise they will seize all my
assets including bank account.
It turned out that he did not pay the rent of the apartment I let him
stay after he asked me to leave so that he can devote his entire
time for this new girl he met.
The sum is accumulated all based on his lie that he was going to pay
after the breakup.
I explained how I can not afford since I had to relocate to
another country to be near my child, applying over 100 jobs
but can not even get any job.
Then he came back saying he had lost his job, applied new
jobs but no one is hiring because of tattoo.
And although it was all the debt he made with my name,
it was a place he was living, penalty made because of his
ignoring my reminder, now he says
’I don’t think I can do anything about it because I am not the
contractor of that apartment. So please let me know if there’s
anything I can do. Sorry but I don’t think I can do much."
He did pay the initial debt known at the beginning of this post
it was about $150, for that I actually sent him a threat
saying I would write the current situation on facebook public post
with his name, because he was not replying any message until then.
So it looks like NAP Angels decided I am the one who need to give
him further lesson.
Tomorrow the surety company’s person in charge will be
back from his holiday so I will try to ask them to deal with my ex.
He says he is not a contractor but his name was on the contract.
My ex should be in far better place to get any cash than
any chance I would, because I am in abroad.
And he is a ‘starving artist’ with many fans and friends who would
help him. In fact he was talking about this number two officer
at the municipal government, with whom he became friends
with, who would prepare him a place to live.
I am trying to think of the best way to deal with this.
I’m starting to feel very sick of it all, it might be
faster to pay the debt by installment and give up.
But I am afraid if I keep paying without being able to
find any job, dealing with son in a tiny room, fighting, that way
I would not be able to forget about this and my negative feeling
will just keep growing towards him.
Lady Eva’s method to decide which spirit to ask this job,
making cards, said Norse Gods, who are my son’s
I am getting to know more about Magick since I came here, and
also reading Damon Brand’s money magick
to get myself out of this. So the options are more for me
that is my only relief. But tomorrow I would have to deal with
it without any ritual, because my son is here with me since Sunday
for his father and girlfriend’s got very sick.
I am devastated how a man can be so irresponsible and
lose love so completely.
Sorry for bumping thread up…
I know it’s a embarrassing thing to tell in public to say the least.
but just wanted to complain for now…I don’t want to
complain on FB where I got 30 mutual friends with my ex
and complaining there would be considered attack/slander.