There is nothing wrong with you. As people are said, his subconscious is fighting you
I would suggest continue your magick but this time around on yourself.
Like magick for more charisma, to have an awe inspiring presence, and the like; for personal improvement.
Giving all things time to work, before you know it, he comes begging on his knees that he can not leave without you!
By that time, you would have an array of options!