Things happen

How works the principle that says tha I mud ignore what I want for that my desire becomes true?

Worry of that type = doubt you’ll get it, doubt means your mind’s holding open the possibility of failure. This is like a reverse spell, your will shapes reality through magick - leave reality a “back exit” to go back to probablistic outcomes, and it probably will.

When you think of the issue, be grateful it’s coming to fruition then think of something else - maybe a hot model or actor or whatever, something equally compelling to the mind.