First you must lose all fear. Commonly, people are afraid to make a point, because they think their opponent has a great counter point. (Magick and Mind Tip>) You must genuinely seek the truth and not just want to be right.
Magically speaking, I put on their astral shoes and look at the topic through their eyes. I go as far as I can to genuinely try to allow them to win. Right after I drop the magick bar I have created by letting them win, I pounce with logic.
For me, a great thing I’ve been noticing lately is that conquering fear is truly key with this and with almost everything. You also must learn to recognize your fears. Sometimes I don’t realize fear is holding me back.
For example, I haven’t gone back to school, because I don’t want student loan debt. This morning, I realized that this was just fear holding me back. (fear of bills and/or not succeeding in classes). No one will get anywhere in life if they’re afraid.
