Some quick common sense requirements for those reading this:
- Please do not take part if you know you may have difficulty asserting your boundaries respectfully, if contacted by someone you aren’t attracted to.
That, most of all, should prevent any problems.
Because while it’s VERY smart, the forum can’t read your mind, scan the person who’s interested, and guarantee you only get contacts from your personal preferred kind of hottie. Sorry.
People cannot know if you might be into some flirty fun without contacting you. You can at any point leave a PM (this may not be possible on every single mobile browser, but is on other devices) by going to the Add/remove button in the box right beneath the very first message.
Anyone who gets a PM they’re not interested in, please courteously inform that person you don’t think there is any spark, remembering they have made themselves vulnerable to some extent by reaching out, and that their doing so is a compliment to you.
(And obviously while that’s never nice to read, if someone says it to you, it just means your happiness lies elsewhere, so please courteously acknowledge, briefly, and then move on.)
However if any need arises, PMs can be flagged just like posts, and I will handle any problems with maximum discretion and consideration for all involved.
If you’re not sure, drop the OP of this thread @Angelb1083 a PM, or @ her on a reply.
We expect people to act like adults and be responsible for their own actions, avoid drama or accusations, and hopefully have fun.
If anyone chooses to meet offline, follow all usual stringent precautions for meeting strangers off the internet no matter how well you may feel you “know” that person from here.
Do research outside this forum for security tips and if you have doubts about handling rejection, or anything, again please research that appropriately, contact me with any concerns, or step away from the forum for a while, if emotions require some breathing space.
Finally, you can Mute this topic by going to the controls under the last reply and selecting Mute:
Thank you Ladies, Gents, and whatever other titles you may bear.