Ha ha ha. I totally didn’t even notice it. But being submissive is a lot actually, but most importantly of all it so consenting to it. When I first thought about entering the lifestyle I fell victim to an abuser not a dominant. Thankfully I am one to always want to learn and research. So I joined a discord group (that I am still very active in). When I introduced myself all of the submissives and a lot of their Masters/Dominants readied the red flags and saved my life. The girl after me ended up in the hospital and this man tried to scare me into meeting him in a hotel.
Which lead to me self collaring and being my own dominant.
I was beyond lucky to have these couples and those ladies to look out for me. So now I stepped into a role of education myself and trying to help and teach others.
It took me a year and a half to even think about submitting to a man again.