So I do readings for myself on things to come or advice. I don’t know the cards fluently so I normally just do one card readings as an outcome our advice on a certain situation and maybe 1 clarifier. I also do yes or no by shuffling and pulling 3 random cards and 3 upright is a strong yes, 2 is a maybe or probably and then reverse amount pertaining to no. If it’s 2 upright or 2 reversed I typically look at the cards and go with what I feel.
But I’ve read conflicting theories stating you should just shuffle and pull cards to your question without really thinking too deeply but I always concentrate exactly on my mind question and people involved and ask my spirits and guides to aid me in choosing the correct answer to my question, positive or negative.
Here’s an example: I sent my ex a very long text yesterday of all the pent up feelings I’ve been having that I need to release. I didn’t get a response but I didn’t really need one as it was basically me spilling my guts after being quiet and letting her sit on that. I felt shockingly positive and relieved somehow after my gut kept telling me she didn’t answer because she’s confused and still hurt over everything as we’ve been apart for 2 months after living together and being together over 2 years.
So I used my cards and just asked out loud if her and I will end up reconciling but without thinking or asking for spirit help. I got 2 reversed and 1 upright but forgot the cards.
I shuffled again and really concentrated; I asked my guides and spirits to help aid me in my question to see the answer I need to see. I got The Lovers upright, Ace of Cups upright and 3 of Cups reverses. To me this not only indicated a maybe or probably but with two very positive cards for love and relationships, very different from the first. I’m confused on the 3 of Cups rx though because I have very close friends keeping tabs on her and all say she isn’t talking to anybody else and probably won’t for some time so not sure how to interpret that. I use the RWS deck btw.
Just curious to how any of you do your readings and outcomes with either of there was ever a noticeable difference?