Most of what happens is based off your actions, the other portion, others actions. A lot of it is perception as well.
In my opinion the world needs suffering in order to teach us about ourselves and what we need to learn to be better people. Fairness and justice are illusions and suffering shatters that illusion. Our world is chaos and order is the only way we can make sense of it. Secrets of the world are gained only when order is shattered.
I donāt think that the need for suffering calls for the mentally idiotic to become predators based on the distaste if societal order, though. If we donāt have order in our lives, we canāt understand the world, even if we know itās an illusion.
Iām quite pessimistic about the world we live in.
Chaos, as well as order can be a good or bad thing. Many people live in unproductive chaos and suffering usually doesnāt make them stronger. Being abused, especially when still immature or weak will only make oneās personality more dysfunctional.
Survival skills can be learned only from real teachers (physical and non-physical), not from criminals, psychopaths or tragedies.
When you develop certain skills itās okay to step into unexplored territories and become a hero if you wish.
so basically life is a reverse colonoscopy and its up to the patient to deal with the malpractice of it?
Really doesnāt have to be like that. We learn to believe in that, but thatās the real illusion, IMO.
Something like that.
To have peace, we must have war.
To have love, we must have hate.
To have life, we must have death.
If war cease to exist, if hate cease to exist, if death cease to exist, THEN, peace, love and life would have no meaning and therefore no existence.