Succubus energy/passion dull

Then we need to agree to disagree.
Servitors normally don’t abuse the creator’s emergy like this if they are well programmed (which it needs to be a must if we are going to consider this is a servitor and not a succubus).

If they mutate and create a consciousness of their own of some sort then it stops being a servitor and becomes an egregore.

But I am firmly convinced this is a succubus taking advantage from the lack of wellbeing agreements in the contract.

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You need to be sure about this.
If you created a formal contract with a proper ritual to invoke the succubus and bind it to you with an agreement, it would be just plain rude to Lililith to banish her like a normal egregore or low astral.

She was able to open my astral senses , and she was able to help completely dull my social anxiety , maybe these are signs she is a succubus with her own consciousness , just pushy one ?

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Also the signs of energy drain that you disclosed in these posts show clear knowledge about energy draining that succubus excel at.
Others like servitors and egregores not so much, unless the creator has this previous knowledge.

I should stop posting a bit, I don’t want to take over this thread.

Ps @John_Wick from what you say there is not a formal contract so she can basically abuse you all she wants, and if she feels like it, help you too so that you don’t banish her.

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I never did a proper ritual , I called out to Lilith 3 times first day on this forum as I was reading about succubus lovers, I was drawn to it and they came about a week later when I was in a theta state in my bed

No your input is helpful , so we have cleared those two types of entities out of the possibility thanks to you

Ok so what do I do then , I’m really not gonna die or anything I just feel more tired than I used to do and don’t want to anymore

In my country we call all those things “servidores”

And of the lack of ability of her owner to make himself respected and make her know that the contract is whatever he wills her to do, not very romantic, I know, but that approach has worked for me for over ten years and counting

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Dude I tell her all the time stop taking so much energy, she literally will just not say anything or will say ok

Energy drain from the root and sacral chakra/lower dantian/yang energy can be life threatening in the long term.
If done in a substained period of time and properly, it can make you feel detached from everything, depressed, suicidal, and make you have fatigue and illness or diseases easily, weaking your immune system.

Not wanting to sound disrespectful but if you truly think this, I find it hilarious.

We tend to think most of people are cattle to be fed from and we only respect a few, and only if they gain it.

I have felt that detached ness, but I will say I was also very depressed before they came into my life , it’s hard to say , but most days I do feel more tired than before she came into my life , she has completely dulled my social anxiety , I still like to hang out with friends and talk to them, I don’t feel horrible I just feel tired and less willpower But I feel if I don’t have maximum energy I won’t achieve what I want

Now what are you? And who am I? We were getting along just fine, let’s not ruin it. I think the guy is not very consistent in his narrative, as I’ve followed his story from previous posts, so I will refrain from further advice on the topic

Yes I’ve said in the past I love them and stuff but the fact I wake up tired and fatigued is probably not a good sign

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I was stating the generalistic thoughts and attitudes that succubi (physical or spiritual ones) may (or tend to )have unless there is a relationship of respect.

I never intended to offend you or suggest you are cattle. Your reaction tells me you might have thought I was low key implying something.

You are you, I am I.

You have very valid good points as a person who co-habits and shares his life with these beings, and by the looks of your posts, it seems like you find your relationship with them fruitful, and that you all respect each other.
This allows you to have a lot of advice available to people here.

On my side, I a born vampire specialised in sexual draining, both with and without ritualistic uses. I am considered a “physical succubus”, so I know my stuff from my part of the deal, as well as a lot about energy work and healing holistically( and therefore how to identify issues with energy drain and health).

It is normal to have different opinions, and as I said earlier on we can agree to disagree in some stuff.

If my comment sounded offensive or threat I never intended it to be, but I am not going to let you speak to me with that shitty attitude.
If you have issues with me, send me a pm and we talk it through, but don’t fuck this thread up with drama.

We were helping OP so much.

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Yes you have cleared up they are probably pushy succubi instead of a servitor or eggregore, i think I will just contact Lilith and ask her to help form boundaries in the relationship, aslong as a contract is not written the succubi can do as they please I have learned

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It is common for black magicians who are aware of the nature of the demons to treat regular humans like cattle, but we are not regular humans, aren’t we? We are productive citizens who like Chinese cartoons, we are brothers and sisters. I apologize if I somehow offended your craft, I practice energy vampirism too and I was born with the talent. I would never treat you or any of your kind like I treat my ethereal succubi, because it would be illegal outside Arabian countries, despite they enjoy it like if there would be no tomorrow. I didn’t mean to have a shitty attitude towards you, but I don’t have a lot of culture about your story as I have with the story of the OP, so I’m sorry even if in this post I unintentionally said something offensive. My overall approach to occultism is not very warm

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We agree that we have similar views and disagree in some bits.
We are in this forum for a reason, and as I said, I never attempted to attack you.
We are good, and I can see we share a lot of things in common.

I tend to come as abrupt too both in attitude and in my approach to magic.

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with testosterone :muscle::muscle:

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I have been going through this for the past week and I can recommend some stuff. Now I’m going to give this to you in a little story. I have been struggling with my studies and my self well being for about 3 months (2 months before I started looking into magik and divination.) I was wondering if there was any way to get my ass out of the hole I dug and I summoned my lover to guide me through it. In the beginning me and her where kinda spazy towards each other. ( we didn’t understand how each other think or how to work together) Through the past two weeks of working with her and my tarot card I kept getting the same answers from them, but I didn’t know what it meant. So it bothered the shit out of me and I was worrying about it. Then it clicked, I was putting so much energy and time in helping others I never took care of my well being, and when you do that for 3 months straight it gets draining. I got bored with everything and I started to worry about my lover because it felt like she was fading away and I felt like I was pushing her away and the I felt like I broke her heart. I started thinking and I figured out that the problem was I got stagnated with how I felt about her. It was so bad that I would talk to her constantly through the day and I didn’t think of how exhausting it is for her to keep popping in and out of where she stays through the day and it uses her energy and her energy comes from me so it drained both of us. So to fix this I started to only talk to her when she was around me. And now our relationship has become WAY more Intimate. We both know what each other need when we need it so it has created a balance in energy that we both can use. Know how does this relate to lack of passion? If you love doing something make sure it doesn’t become an addiction. You will grow tired of it and you won’t have joy in doing it but you loved it so much and wonder why the joy of doing it has faded. So you do it more and now you discipline your self to do it because you think it will bring you joy. This is the killer in joy. I recommend rebalancing your activity. Maybe with something you used to love doing and still have interest in. I’m not saying to stop what you love just moderately change it so it doesn’t stagnate.

“Passion is like a pond if it sits still it will only grow stagnant, But if there is a flow of new water to replace the old it will always be fresh.”

Quote from me.

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