Finally told a friend today, after years of listening to her complain about her situation, that either she does something about it or she shuts up. The moans and complaints? The old man doesn’t share the fridge. She can’t use the tub because of this or that. People parked their cars in such a way she can’t charge her hybrid… at the same time expecting her to carry the financial weight of just about everything. Cash cow, she is. Enabling it, she definitely does.
So tell her, look. Stop complaining. You could do something about your problems but you’ve been doing nothing but complain for 4 years running. Enough is enough. I understand the need to vent - we all need to vent! It’s healthy! - but this is just flat caustic going nowhere.
She’s got all this psychic training, and she only wants to complain. She could light a candle, she could put out energies to get the people she’s with to accommodate her better. She could put out energy for a better job so she could move out.
Needless to say when I said that, suddenly she had to go. She really hates hearing the truth. But garsh.
Do something about your situation! Even if it’s small!!
goes to light candles and do something healthy