There are a few words that’s self-explanatory to their behavior towards you:
Hate is comparable to fear and working with the likes of “succubus” or similar entities can inflict addictive behavior from these beings. Emotions are catalysts with high energetic patterns and can work like a dynamo: High frequency energies get stored and then released through the “dynamo” with a rinse-and-repeat motion. Like humans, they have different personalities and some do have addictive behavior through our emotional reactions. If you want to see their true manifestations, showing fear is not the way to go.
If you have any kind of issues regarding trust, then why should they reveal their names for you? If you can’t trust Lilith and her daughters, why should they trust you?
Spirits or entities with dualism behavior is just as unrestricted as humans, which means they can choose to be good, evil, active, passive, neutral or whatever choices they make under certain circumstances. And in some cases, like yours maybe, they choose “eye for an eye”. If you wanna see the true potential of a succubus, the result is alot more than plain sex.