'S okay, I split this to a new thread coz it wasn’t remotely about the Sorceress Cagliastro thread.
I was intending on sending you a PM some time to explain what exactly it feels like to actually be ''married'' to a spirit,if it's the same thing as a life-long pact,just with a romantic and sexual addition,or if there is more to being married to a spirit than meets the eye.
BUT,I ALSO know that you have a LOT going on,and that it’s probably best not to poke around and ask stupid question simply to satiate curiosity …
Yes, good call - I really just can’t be bothered to describe intimate and detailed accounts of stuff, just marry a fucking spirit you like, and see how it goes?!
It’s like asking “Eva, you wear boots in the winter, please give me a detailed account of why you do this and how it feels, and also how you chose it” - GAH!!
I just feel like falling asleep to be honest, because anyone who’s BOUGHT boots will know, and anyone who hasn’t can just fuck off.
Sorry about the swearing but it is my post-conversion (there were no sexual swear-words in pre-Xian England) heritage… :)[/quote]
I would just like to point out that many of the female spirits I encounter these days are actually fairies,and because I am technically a child of Hecate,they are all technically my sisters…so that would be weird…
However,there are succubi,angels,undines,goddesses,and tons of other female spirits.
But,it would be super daft of me to think ‘‘I should marry a spirit,but which one to choose?’’ when I clearly know that that is most certainly NOT how I make that type of decision with mortal human females.
I don’t look over dozens of girls,interview them,ask them to run for me some errands and teach me things,and then expect one of them to go out with me and marry me.And treat that marriage more as a business contract with sex than a marriage.That’d be crazy.
I simply fall in love with someone,who I meet in my interactions with spirits.I also do not really think that I’m made for actually dating a spirit,because I am very monoamorous in nature.
I’m serious.I know that that sounds a bit strange,especially for a guy,and would be dismissed as bogus by anyone out there,but I am speaking here,honestly and frankly,I can seldom maintain more than one crush at the same time,much less date two at the same time,with the other’s permission.
So having a spirit girlfriend/wife/whatever would probably mean not having anyone physical with me,which is a hard thing to wrap my mind around.
I also tend not to fall in love super-fast,which also means I tend to fall out of love REALLY slowly.Which is highly disadvantageous for me,at this time,especially considering my love life is an absolute mess.
But meh,I’ll learn.After all,I’m just a little girl.*
And keep in mind people,that this is just me.I know Eva makes it work REALLY well,I’m just saying I wouldn’t.
Anyone else got interesting spirit partner stories to share?Best not let this thread go to waste.I was confused when my posts disappeared,but I realized soon enough that Eva probably used her mod magix to do stuff,so I just ignored it.
*The little girl is a reference to the recurring element of the little girl in my magical path,the manifestation of my godform as a little girl,something I will talk about soon-ish,and the little girl that I was in a past life,who I plan on working with more closely and who’s legacy I plan on honoring.