Well, being friendzoned is sometimes a challange, sometimes a sign of her not seeing value / or sexual attraction in you.
So i basically have 2 questions to ask you:
Did you establish body contact, did you touch her, synchronize your breath with her, look into her eyes, actually looking into her vessle?
All of those should produce Sexual attraction, and are quite fail-safe, so even if you’re friendzoned, these are tools to use to change that into a relationship.
Secound, did you make the time you’ve spendt together valuable for her?
i mean emotionally valuable.
Doing different things, talking different topics, and sharing your actual opinion, instead of just copying what she thinks in order to look good for her '(which quite honestly produces the exact opposite reaction - complete boredom. why even bother, if he ain’t got any own idea’s or opinions to throw in the pot?)
take your time, consider if you can adjust on these ends.
Ideally, you want to make her feel several emotions simotanely,
like, not just love, but also excitement, trust, attraction, relaxation, adventure, exploration, to name some.
when you can feed her with 3-5 emotions at the same time, you’re normally on a good path to actually get her.
But of course, you also need to go in to actually get her.
She (most women), expect you to go first / do the steps she’d be shamed about doing by herself.
The more of those steps she haves to take for you,
the faster she’ll turn away and seek someone who’s less, well, passive.
And if that sounds like to much effort (which i know, to you it does, and for the moment i take a step back and care less about your general competence and getting you to a solid relationship,) - there’s the standard way aswell, you know?
The crap that movies frame into the public constantly.
You know, buying her red roses, heart shaped chocolate,
listening to seductive music when she’s around and just making her drunk to knock her normal defense mechanisms out, kissing her while she’s drunk or sleepy, and moving on from there.
Not my favorite way of teaching others to do it, becouse there’s tons of idiots running that bullshit already, and it’s way below the quality i usually expect people to reach.
But heck, it works for what?
40-60% of the population?
So it shouldn’t be that bad, of a try.
If you want to rep things up to a higher level of quality and joy,
you can still look back at this post and go with the upper suggestions.
Sincerely,
¥’Berion