So I understand that the demons and deities don’t really care about sexual orientation or gender identity, but when making a blood pact with a demon (let’s say for example Lilith) would the deity agree to call me by my preferred name Scarlet?
Yes, they will call you by whatever name you introduce yourself as. So, if during evocation, you were to say, “Lilith, Mistress of the Night, I, Scarlet, call to you,” then that is the name she will use when speaking with you.
It’s similar to the tradition of taking a magical name. When you do, that name is what spirits will refer to you as.
Thank you so much! This has been an issue for me for a while causing me not to dedicate yet