Maybe I’m odd, but I for sure don’t want my actual ex-es back as partners. Even ones that seemed like they might have “gotten away” at the time, I would not want to bring back. At this point though, i surely know the parts about them that were enlivening, exciting, comforting, and that I want in my life, and I also know very well the parts that are demoralizing, destructive, and soul draining, and have no place in my life.
I suppose then, what I really would want is a means by which to distill the good from the many women I’ve encountered in my time into just one, and to bring her into my life. But I sense the danger here is that any such attraction could just as easily bring the distillation of every negative aspect and more that I haven’t yet experienced into my life.
So before setting forward any magical intentions, how best does one ensure that the manifestation is an unmitigated positive, and that any manifested antithesis of your intention happens to exist far removed from you and far removed from your sphere of influence?