Ahhhh, good ol’ times…when I had to buy my first bottle of pepperspray and a telescopic truncheon because a dude started to display a similar behaviour and who couldn’t accept a “no”. Or twenty. 
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Realtalk: of course there are options to force her into some kind of submission with magick. But given how she already has you on her radar as a threat you would have to come up with a perpetuum mobile of layered work again and again and again and again. Ah, I am sure, you will come up with something.
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You need to back off. Again, no amount of magick can help you if you are acting in this way. Do you think this is what women find attractive? Guys messaging them against their will, making threats to people that they care about? In case I have to say it - no, I can assure you that any sane woman does not want that. If you find one that does, I’d wear steel-enforced condoms, at all times.
^THIS.
This is one of the primary reasons I refuse to EVER resort to online dating again - creeps who don’t take it well when I’m not interested. Especially when I close my account and they STILL find a way to get messages through!
Back the fuck up. Work on your social skills. And don’t ever pursue a woman who isn’t interested - WE TALK TO EACH OTHER and most of us will warn other women about creepy guys. It may not be easy to hear that right now, but it’s the truth and it will save you serious grief.
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Alright. I’m going to be completely honest…and I hope you don’t take offense, but it needs to be said in order to help you.
As others have stated, you should most definitely let it go. Your behavior from your post shows your lust of results, which will only hinder your magick even further and prevent any spirit from even considering to help you.
Not only that, but it seems that this person you are trying to get believes that you are too needy, and perhaps somewhat creepy. From the texts, she has clearly determined that she does not want to be around you. No amount of love magick can counter such a belief, because it is in that person’s free will. Regardless of how much you pursue her, she will still have negative opinions about you. This makes the love magick almost useless. On a side note, the fact that you are still pursuing her after this no longer makes it love magick, but simply domination and coercion
Nobody, man or woman, likes being around someone who seems needy or desperate. This indicates lack. Not only a lack of a partner, but also a lack of confidence and self-esteem. While it is true that we are all “living gods”…we are all still within the game called the Physical Universe, which has rules. This means that magick can’t fix everything. And it surely will not work if you can not change your psyche. In other words, you can’t make gold from shit.
I don’t see a magickal problem in your situation. I see a problem in your set of beliefs, perceptions about your own Self, and perceptions about how dating is suppose to go. All of these things need to be fixed through deep inner-work before you can even consider getting help from spirits. Ask them yourself, and I am sure they will tell you the same thing.
I wish you the best. 
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She loves god 
Well ask her god to give you her heart.
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So is your target.
So does your target. She gets to define her life just as much as you do. Don’t ever forget that. You are not special just because you practice magick. When you get down to it, everyone practices magick when they clearly define their world, and this woman has done so. She has performed a banishing ritual, but, like one of those irritating parasites that feeds on a magician, you just won’t go away.
Frankly, I see an arrest for stalking in your future.
And that is how the Trojan War started.
You really need to face cold reality. YOU ARE NOT A GOD NOR A KING and you don’t get to “take what you want.” Thinking such is just ego driven stupidity.
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THIS!!
I am so tired of people bullshitting and saying they are living “Gods”. They can do whatever the hell they wanna do…
Hell nah…
We are not Gods. We are mere humans. That’s it.
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Right. I’m going against the grain here but many of us dominate people when we do magic so I’m actually going to help you with your request. I also believe that one of the rules of the forum is not to be judgemental or preachy on the op’s intended goal. Very often these threads come from a place of pain.
Now I would suggest work with Dantalion who is a demon that specialises in among other things changing a persons mind. You draw his sigil and chant his enn until the sigil opens. You can Find his enn on youtube. You may also write a petition to him
Potentially people have also had success with Amon. There is a lengthy thread on here on how to work with him if you use the search function
C Kendall also posted the heartagram method which has also had successes
You can also use the intranquility spell which is more of a punishment spell than a love spell. Again their is a useful thread on here about it if you use the search function
I’ll check back In several hours to see if you have questions
I want to remind everyone that this topic appears to be somewhat derailed from the op’s intent and our purpose is not to judge him. I wonder if he would be getting this feedback if he was a woman
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No one said he couldn’t do so.
But to be honest, dude fucked up big time even before he started to work on the target, in a way that raised natural resistance in said woman. Instead of keeping himself in the background and actually working in layers on his own suggestive power he just jumped at it like a rabid dog ALTHOUGH the target openly signaled (probably more than one time) that she is not only not interested but that she finds him more than just a bit untrustworthy (creepy). That implies that OP doesn’t have the discipline it would take to work on a spell over a certain period of time that would not only bring the target to him but that would let the target WANT to stay with him because she would actually and honestly like him and see more in him than a creepy dude. He couldn’t even bring up enough self control to NOT act like this. He fucked up. Thats it.
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Maaan, there’s a reason he’s not posting his side of the messages 
Anyways, dude quit creeping her out, and she said in the second message that shes with someone anyways, so that’s your queue to back off in the first place, not followed by overabundance of unwanted creepy messages.
We are only living gods to an extent, control yourself, because honestly, you’re making yourself look a tad nuts my man. 
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Yep I totally agree with you. He must realize his messages are maybe “too much”.
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Your too desperate. The only way for you to get her now is to remove that desperation, calm down and get another girl. When she sees that another girl got with you. It will intrigue her. Then you can talk to her as a friend and stay in the background of her life.
You should apologize for the way you acted. And work on charisma. Use rituals to make her forget those creepy things you did to her. Then use rituals to make you better looking and her to soften her heart to you. So she lowers her inhibitions but this will only work if you change your creepy and disgusting ways.
Hit the the gym. Make money. Get a cute girl or date cute girls. Make sure she sees this. And when you see she’s lightening up to you.
Then work with a love spell. This time working with Haniel the archangel. That’s probably the best fit. Or sallos. You said you want to marry her right? You better be making some money. Because it looks like you have absolutely no value. So theirs still a way
This process will probably take 8 months and over to be able to do. If you really want her you’ll find way. And the way is to remove that desperation reeking from your spirit poisoning your life and those around you. Threatening a women? Why would you. It should be the other way around the way I see it. Better get to work Beta.
And if you want my opinion I highly Doubt you’re gonna be able to do it so better to move on. She’s not that worth theirs too many beautiful girls out there to act like that over one women.
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I would recommend in the future studying the Art of War as a way to expand your magical knowledge. Every human interaction (whether conflict, love, negotiation, etc) can be associated with the idea of war in someway. Yes, magic does involve dominating others in some way, usually by suggestion that comes across as their own free will. However, when they become aware of your intentions, they put up a natural resistance that throws wretches in any future workings. At that point, the battle has been lost, as any future working will require more time, energy and effort to manifest something that may never occur. It is not a matter of morality that I say this, but of efficiency.
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I have my own business and I’m very handsome and muscular I’m as well I’m the military I’m one badass motherfucker I jump out of planes I have dated hotter chicks than her but I fell in love with her she won over my heart. And I came at her to strong and I told her I don’t want to see her with no other man if I do see her with another man I’m going to beat his ass bad I don’t care where I see him I’m just going to attack with out thinking. The only way I won’t attack is if her grandma or her aunt is around that’s what I told her that I only want her for me.
So, being court marshalled is going to be the end result of this? How will that lead to success?
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U need to work on ur psychology skills man , that’s going to indicate you have extreme anger issues , put ur self in her shoes, she would be fearful ur sending violent texts on top of spamming her , how is she gonna be attracted to that
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This, or news about some dude keeping a woman in his cellar for several years…
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Dude she’s not even yours, clearly. If you’re so charming, go grab someone else, that easy. There’s billions of females and you’re overreacting over one. You don’t need to “beat someone’s ass” over a girl, that shows weakness. But you sound like a one track mind kind of guy, so best of luck on future endeavors just don’t do anything you’d regret because she obviously doesn’t give a shit.
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Obessession energy in my experience is one of the most powerful magickal tools we have at our disposal, and the funny thing is for some of us, i would guess so in your case, it is extremely abundant, but others cannot seem to make it at all.
I’ve fallen into the same trap of allowing that energy to flow toawards a lover and have yet to see it work out well.
Obsession enery is like fire in that it can be extremely destructive without having firm control over it and directing it into the right channels. And Damn is that hard to do.
My advice would be to avoid all substances that might dull your senses or numb you in any way. Start to work on redirecting your fire, your obsessive energies towards family, friends, hobbies, and most of all for myself it was career.
This may be an unpopular opinion but I’d reccomemend looking into ‘The Rational Male’ series by Rollo Tomossi & ‘The Art of Seduction’ by Robert Greene. I reccomend Tomassi because he talks in it about a theory called ‘Sexual Market Value’ and ‘Hypergamy’ and I think they are ideas you need to be exposed to get a handle on your own mind in this situation. Its harsh truth but one you likely need to hear. I reccomend ‘The Art of Seduction’ by Robery Greene because in it you can hear how some of the greatest men of history allowed themseleves to be poisoned by obession and it destroyed them. You learn to identify the ways you similarly might be being led down a similar path not only in relationships but all of life.
I’d also reccomend choosing to work with entities that are more buisness minded and avoid anything that has to do with love and romance magick. I remeber a few years ago i did a few months of workings with the Morrigan, female entity who certainly is no prude, but she is a war goddess and all my workings with her pushed me towards martial arts and weightlifiting. Though i ight nsay its best to work away from any femanine currents entirely. For myself Belial comes to mind.
Best of luck man. LIke I said, Ive definitely been there. Learn to take control and you will find a source of endless power and perpetual growth.
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Perhaps it would be best to explain it this way. You are in the middle of an military operation with ten men and your target is an enemy force of let’s say ten. Through your actions, you have allowed the enemy to know you are coming and given them time to bring reinforcements. Since you have likely scared her and she made her faith known, she has likely turned to her deity for protection via prayer (which is essentially a petition charged with intention). If she allows her family members to know, their prayers can be added, as well as the protection of her ancestors. Now instead fighting a battle where you are equally matched, the enemy has outnumbered and outgunned you. It is time to decide to fight another day, not lead your efforts to the slaughter.
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