I’ll try to sum up the situation as concisely as possible.
I was in an abusive relationship for many years and had pretty much given up on ever being able to leave my ex. Anyway to make a long story short I started getting my confidence back at my new job, then I started flirting with a coworker and developed a psychic link with him. I then decided that if I would never escape my (now) ex husband, I may as well start practicing magick again(something he had utterly forbidden), and started doing sex magick to leave him. I left my ex, and have started divorce proceedings, but the paperwork is currently tied up in the legal system.
After leaving my ex, I had a short window of time with my coworker, who most definitely also feels the link because I am able to pull him to me almost as though the two of us are attached by a magnet.
However… the problem is the nature of his job. I made the mistake of asking him if he wanted to hang out, causing him to back away completely and stop talking to me, although he still is always around me and shows up wherever I am constantly, though we never speak. I will smile at him and then say hello using our link, and he will show up in my department “coincidentally”. However recently every time it happens, his boss is with him, and seems to be making a concentrated effort to prevent us from speaking. The whole situation is very frustrating for me, because we can’t speak on the floor (he works plainclothes security), and I can’t seem to catch him alone without one of the bosses watching us. I did a stop gossip spell so that people would stop talking about the two of us, but it seems like no matter what I do (sigils, remote seduction, Lanie Stevens BWD), he won’t speak to me anymore. Apparently he’s been with the company his whole life, and he’s a company man through and through, so if anyone finds out, we would both lose our jobs. But I’ve never had a link with someone like this before, and I don’t want to lose him.
I want to do love ritual on him to get him to pursue me on the down low, however, I don’t know his last name and he isn’t on social media(though I did find a picture of him). In your experiences, is the last name absolutely necessary? Or will the picture and first name suffice?