Love ritual in Buckland's Candle Magick Book

So, on Saturday, I met someone. I’ll call her Violet for the time being. She was very fun and expressed an interest in me. I set up a candle ritual, the one mentioned in the title. Except, I want to modify it. I’m not interested in forcing feelings that aren’t originally there, but provoking those that are is another story. Any way I can modify the ritual to do that?