An eight-year, loving relationship ended over a trivial argument and poor communication. Crucially, the breakup happened while she was unknowingly pregnant.
She waited a month to disclose the news, doing so harshly and with a firm decision to abort. We spent June fighting intensely. The total silence began in July 2025, which is when she proceeded with the abortion.
I commissioned a love binding spell, with the professional guaranteeing her return by the end of August. Still, nothing has happened, which is causing intense sadness and anxiety. My hope for reconciliation is not just about her return, but about us having the chance to forgive each other and truly understand what happened. An eight-year relationship built on so much existing love shouldn’t end in such bitter resentment and misunderstanding.
This stagnation persists despite over 10 different professional tarot readings unanimously confirming our reunion and our ability to overcome the deep hurt feeling and reconect us with love. The last reading, two weeks ago, was also highly positive, featuring cards like the King of Pentacles, The Sun, and the 3 of Cups. Furthermore, two days ago, I performed my first ever ritual to Dantalion based on the Demons of Magick book from the Gallery of Magick.
(I am maintaining therapy and psychiatric medication—despite my life being in total disarray because of this terrible loss.)
Given that the spell’s “predicted” return date of late August has passed, and nearly ten tarot consultations from different professionals ALWAYS confirm a reunion, plus my work with Dantalion two days ago, do you recommend any other type of magical procedure?
It sounds more like this was the last straw and there were other issues that went unaddressed for too long. The poor communication part would have obscured this for you.
A love spell won’t work if love isn’t the issue, and that there are unresolved issues she cannot accept. You have to find out what the real problem was and fix it. Communication being a number one priority.
Yeah I agree. Try Dantalion or Paimon, and ask her if she’ll come to couples counseling with you. You probably cold do with a neutral perspective and a neutral space to help you ask the right questions and talk it out.
This is a waste. 3 would have been plenty. Asking the same question doesn’t get different answers. Spend the money of couples therapy and get her to tell you.
Well whatever your taking meds for could be part of it and maybe she didn’t want to say so?
Idk, but… where is your concern for her feelings and what’s going on with her? This didn’t come out of the blue and you have no idea, so it sounds like you’ve been ignoring her experience kinda. Which would absolutely make her give up trying to tell you even. Correct me if I’m wrong.
You guys need to talk properly and clear the air, again a third party will help given you have serious problems communicating on your own right now. Add a guiding entity to help you both hear each other’s needs.
Also try the Goetia entity Foras:
Understand a loved one. If you are serious about a relationship, it helps to understand the other person’s deeper needs. This power works by making the other person more expressive while helping you to perceive the true needs expressed behind anything that is spoken. It can be used at any time but is useful in the early stages of a relationship when you are deciding if you want to meet those needs, and also after years have passed, when needs have changed. Many relationships fail because people don’t check up on changing needs and if you want a relationship to survive, this perception can help.
– Hargrove, Corwin. Goetia Pathworking: Magickal Results from The 72 Demons (Magick of Darkness and Light) (p. 100). Kindle Edition.
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Were in zero contact since July.
No conversation… no messages.
I’m have depression. But my ex girlfriend have depression too. My mental issue is not a problem to our relationship.
I’m a healthy man, working hard and making money to trying to live well
We need to talk. I need something to break this silence… as I say… I use Dantalion to change her mind to talk to me… any suggestions to break the silence and force a communication?
Yes. We had some problems. I cheated on her in 2022. But I think we’d no issues with that.
And we did a couple therapy for that.
In the begging of 2025 I have big problems. Lost my old job… my car was stolen and other sh** too. My ex was in trouble with the University and the job and everything else.
I was trying to help her, telling that she need a psychiatrist to bring her back to the normally…
The big problem now is: We need a contact. We need a conversation. To calm the broken heart and maybe return our relationship.
The problem is that you’re not giving the magick time to work. You’re desperate, clinging, and that is pushing your result away. You need to let go, not of the desire for reconnection, but of your attachment to it. You’re too emotional and that attachment is just going to keep you in a cycle of wanting instead of having.
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Yes. I’m thinking you’re complete right.
I’m too emotional and with a great desire in my heart to reconnection. It’s a desperate need.
What do you recommend for my, guys?
Thanks so much.
You need to release the worry and the anxiety. To do this, spend some time in mediation imagining the result you want. Relax your body from all tension and imagine having what you want. Don’t try to force anything but just go to the end of being reconnected and live there. Try to feel it in your body, how you would feel if the magick worked. Do this in the morning and before sleep and try to maintain the feeling throughout the day. If any negative thoughts come up, just laugh and tell yourself it’s okay.
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Nothing really happened yet
No hello message. Nothing.
I’m wondering Why every reading say “she will return” but nothing happen.
Anyone here do Magickal work with love? I need help.
We have a request thread for this, but typically people don’t want to volunteer get involved with love spells. They are very baneful and prone to backlash. Your target did nothing to us.
After that the point of this forum is for you to learn how to do your own magick. Have you considered doing magick on yourself to remove the pain and help yourself move on and attract a better person?