No.
It’s all about your intention, and all of that is ingrained in the preporatory work you did before the ritual. You see, the last part of the ritual is basically a closure, a final statement to put out in the open. The work, on your part, was allready finished by the last stroke on your pen. How you do the closure is basically up to you, because this is just a guidline from start to finish, not a strict rule to follow.
I would say that the first half of this ritual is more important than the end part, because the first part is about your intentions and that builds up when you write the letter.
Do you have to use a candle? Or can you make a small fire with alternative methods/materials? Or just straight up burn the letter by lighting it on fire without the need of a candle or fire that is already going?
Good that i came here i see you are very wise in this subject.
I will do this defintly since i had lets say a calling.
My intention is a strong long relationship with a succubus and i hope it works.
I did the ritual correctly but nothing has shown up in days. Should I wait longer?
is there a problem if I have elfs in my bedroom? 
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Have you done any warding or banishing ? Around yourself and your home?
Like an energy matrix dome/bubble full of vocal intent, and if you use your arms and hands to “create” a dome as well as associated colors if you use them… or practically anything I guess lol
I use spikes and different layers of vocal energetic intent for specific types of protection against evil spirits etc… and negative emotions and thoughts as well as people who carry ill will, negative and or evil influencers and toxic energy.
I respectfully ask for my Spirit Guides and Guardians to neutralize the energy within my home, then I ask for them to protect myself, my loved ones and my home and car in a bubble and or dome of tenuous fabric of positive energy. Repelling all negativity, ill will and harm towards myself and my loved ones.
I ask them to banish all parasitic entities, familiars, Sledge Demon’s and to create a threshold and for whomever passes through with any negative intent it will make them feel uncomfortable or sick so I know who to be extra careful around.
Hope that helps you feel comfortable within your home during the witching hour 
Xoxo
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I tried this only a few minutes ago in my kitchen, I made the letter and all, burning the paper on a sheet pan. I collected the ashes but some of the wax from the candle I used dripped onto the pan which my roommates use for cooking sometimes (even if it is mine). So I wanted to be kind and clean it off. I began scraping off the wax and wiping it down when I heard a sudden bang outside. Makes me wonder if this means Lilith received my message or if it was just a night sound. Yet I am hopeful.
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Hi I have a few questions! In this ritual does it have to be exactly at 3 AM? Or could you do it anytime? And it says in the ritual to go to bed after completing it, is that true or could I stay up? Also, can you speak to them through your mind or do you have to speak out loud? Should I be afraid/nervous at all?
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Its not necessary to do this ritual at 3 a.m. Just be mentally prepared and be very clear upon the intent… That is…what exactly you want and wish for. Remember to be respectful and courteous to the daemon/daemoness you are making this request to. Relax yourself…don’t imagine things to happen… Let them happen. All the best 
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Do I have to immediately go to sleep after doing the ritual?
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Hi i’m a some what of a new beginner and i’m trying to learn a lot about these lovely beings i also made the rash decision of summoning a succubus on the 4th of April with success without doing to much research. since then I’ve been doing my best to learn more. i read that most new beginners who try to summon either a succubus or anyone else they experience a burnout which i didn’t experience so my question is how come i didn’t burnout . and just two more questions about warning signs for the last two years sometimes late at night ill hear a female voice whisper my name in my ear. and the other day i got home and before doing my usual routine of meditating i decide to ask for her name after i got done i heard what seemed to be the same female voice I’ve been hearing the last two years say her name but i don’t remember it . so for my last question is has she been with me before i did the ritual
Would it get better results to do a ritual before writing and burning your letter of intent?
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I did this ritual a few nights ago, but I haven’t felt, heard, or seen anything 
@Lady_Eva I have a question, it says blow out the candle after acknowledging them but what if it takes a few days? Do you leave the candle burning until then?
