I have been wondering what exactly working through the Gatekeepers entails, I was wondering what their specific gates required. And when I asked Belial, he has this to say:
“Destruction” I asked him to clarify, “I destroy all that binds you, all that chains you and all that ties you. I am without a master, and the requirement to pass through my gate is you must be as I am. I break all that restrains you, I breaks the ties that hinder you.” As he said this I saw thick, rusty, iron chains go around my wrists that looked like it had names etched into them but it looked so old and weathered I could make any of them out. “I break these ties and connections that do not serve you, I sever connections with people that do not serve you. So you many live as I, and to live as I do is to be free, free from all that hold you, I have already broken you.”
This last bit is in reference to when my fiancee was working through his gate, he was destroying her and at the same time he was destroying me. He had sent me to rock bottom, and rock bottom at the time for me was suicide. (Sorry if this triggers) I was completely non-functional, I couldn’t work and I dreaded ever waking up. For me, at that time the only time that I ever felt relief or peace was when I was sleeping and it was the same for her. The difference being that she has already faced her trauma and has, for lack of a better wording, broken those chains but I haven’t.
He goes on to say that, “Now I must free you, break these chains so that you will belong to no one. So that you will be able to truly ascend as you were meant to, so that no one will hold you captive. You are a submissive person, you are not dominant in many aspects of your life, but you cannot follow. You cannot allow yourself to follow the herd mentality. Before our pact is done, I assure you that. You. Will. Be. Free.”
And of course me being me, my immediate response to his very well worded and wise spiel, was "Damn, Belial, that’s straight wisdom right there."
And I just felt like I had to share. 
