A week ago, I bought a book called “The Sex Issue”. I’ve been reading up on it and learned a few interesting things. One that I’d like to discuss states that that one thing men supposedly want isn’t sex. It’s appreciation. We are forced to think we must be strong, however we can be weak and vulnerable. Though you could argue strength comes from overcoming weakness and vulnerability. What the book says men want is to feel appreciated. It also says women want to feel independent, again going back to gender roles. I agree with both. However, I feel like I want more than to be acknowledged and shown appreciation.
Every so often, I have dreams about being a leader of some group of friends. Everyone comes to me. I have their attention. Though, I use the charisma and social capital I have to basically convince the people in the group to get along and inspire the best in them. I feel like this is my actual nature I’m seeing. There are times this nature comes out in my waking hours. If I’m in a good mood, I’ll look for whatever opportunity I can to do a good deed within my power. Though fear of being misinterpreted or taken advantage of stops me. If I’m not, I tend more towards a “Don’t help don’t harm” philosophy. This is mostly towards feeling alone or invisible.
I’ve realized all my talk on using magic to attract sex is more about using it to get others to open up to me. Sex is nice, don’t get me wrong. But I want these dreams to come true. I want to get others to open up to me, giving me their attention, so I can use that influence in any beneficial way I can. Though, yes, I still want sex. Just not as a priority.
Same, just saying that women show their desires through where their money goes, and large numbers seem to want a stalker control-freak billionaire who fixates on a mostly powerless virgin, which is at least the opposite of what feminism says.
Same with Phantom of the Opera, hugely popular with female audiences, that’s not a consenting relationship of empowered equals, it’s the appeal of the monster, the old Eve within that wants a psychopath so long as he’s HER psychopath.
Look on here, women are usually throwing ankles over ears for demonic Kings, not angels, or egregores created to have extra special listening abilities.
Anyway just thought I’d mention it in reply to the idea women want to be independent, they have to say that to look good, but look at what people do, not what they say.
Her publishers are more effusive. Susan Sandon, managing director of Cornerstone, a division of Random House, said: “The Fifty Shades of Grey phenomenon is perhaps one of the most extraordinary experiences of my entire publishing career and I feel privileged to be part of it.
“The speed and sheer size of the sales is incredible.”
Actually, in the book’s words “When something she originally enjoyed doing becomes a chore.”
Though I cannot stand feminism. It betrays its own values and justifies itself with its own rhetoric. I won’t go into detail, but honestly I don’t think many women respect themselves, or other women or men for that matter. And its like people can’t talk about misogyny and misandry at the same time. Honestly, if I could describe media for women, it would be “Demeaning women under the guise of empowering them.” (Nostalgia critic.) Or, “One woman’s pending lawsuit is another’s sexual fantasy.” (Adoseofbuckley.)
The relationship in my story between the male and female protagonist starts as a rivalry, mostly him not trusting her due to past experiences and an inferiority complex. She eventually gets him to loosen up and be more open. Sexuality is used as vehicle for emotional healing. She is sexualized, but not at the cost of her intelligence, independence, individuality, morals, or courage. Until then, its basically cat and mouse. Serenity (Name has a meaning) is shown to be very flirty, but when she needs to be, she can be serious.
Last week Right after I invoked Lucifer for the first time a girl I’d usually be crazy for started trying to date me suddenly but I had no sexual desire so I brushed her off. I don’t know if that was his intervention or not, but I felt almost partly enlightened. I don’t know if she was wrong for me, or maybe I was just not feeling it that day, but I had a less perverted perspective on life, that let me see people better. Sorry if i wildly changed the subject but u right about that shit
Strength is very simply the ability to adapt to reality. In that sense, you can’t view strength as some sort of cookie crumble where some humans are made of inherently stronger “dough” than others.
It’s about choices you make in the mind. It’s your beliefs and thoughts and subconscious programming. All of those can be mastered,
Whether you’re sensitive or emotional or you express your emotions visibly doesn’t really matter. It’s all about your ability to adapt to changes and change yourself.
It’s about changing your Persona to be more flexible, not to tie your identity to things that are external to you. You need self-confidence to serve as the foundation of how you relate to outside events. If you don’t have self-confidence, then you’re holding yourself back from making the changes you need to in your life out of fear of failure. AKA procrastination.
The only thing you can truly ground your self-confidence in is your own godhood and your own true will to ascend. Trust that you are guided.
Not you, but to all the jokers talking about BDSM as some sort of “counter-example”, it really isn’t.
50 Shades received so much criticism from people into BDSM precisely because it depicts a control-freak who pretty much stalks the protagonist. Yet women went nuts for it.
Would you be happy with a partner who micro-managed your life, dictated what you ate, what contraceptive you used, required you to exercise a certain amount of days a week, and cut you off from your friends and family? Add some good looks, a six pack and billionaire status and voila: you have Christian Grey.
Dude, every man desires to climb the hierarchy, its as primitive as lobsters, one of the oldest creature living. Social hierarchy and the desire to Climb it is just programmed into our nervous system. If for some reason a group Is externally blocked to Climb the ladder for a long time, then it is revolution in making! Check out Jordan Peterson’s work, -Maps of Meaning.
And that desire of opening up comes mainly after cuming. If one can keep fucking for 90 mins straight without cuming or cum for two hours long sticking his dick in the pussy, then that opening up, vulnerable stuff won’t come up. It will be heaven any way .
Don’t know much about women’s psychology, but I will say this ‘‘They are fucking evil’’.
I dunno. Sex, for me, is an unfulfilled biological need.
Appreciation from others is not really something that I concern myself with, generally speaking.
Like the meme says, if the main character in the book wasn’t a handsome billionaire living in a mansion, he’d be considered a psycho stalker on an episode of Criminal Minds that kidnaps women and locks them in his basement dungeon.
Don’t know how much women fall for looks/ handsomeness? I mean what’s handsome about werewolves or Even vampires? They only care about status, place in the social hierarchy ( for obvious evolutionary reason, the Baby must have good genes )
And second - they really like to be dominated. Something i will never understand why. ( Except when having an argument )
It also comes down to that the billionaire knows how to lead and Aguirre resources. Herbert the Pervert living in a trailer park doesn’t. He have a lack of understanding social control to step up in the ladder and create what he wants.
If you are determined and ambitious girls will have thier eyes looked at you.
A tale as old as time, Beauty and the Beast.
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