Just as pure unadulterated hate must be free from positive vibrations so too must love be free of negative vibrations.
Most people don’t actually cast a love spell. What you will cast, is something that you’ll convince yourself is a love spell but in reality it comes from a negative place, not wanting to be lonely, wanting to control another for selfish gain.
I can list 1000 reasons hear of the places people come from when they cast a love spell but I can tell you that very little of it comes from a positive place or embodies the truest sense of love. The easiest trap to fall into is right after the break up when your emotions are high but none of them positive.
In this case you’re doing a controlling spell, or a last spell or something along those lines.
It amazes me how everyone so easily understands that the kill someone you have to truly hate them with every fiber of your being, you have to see yourself actually performing the physical act of killing someone and be in that focused state of mind for the magick to work.
I see very few love spells cast, wherein someone states I love this person with all my heart I devote myself to them I give myself freely to them I choose to make the rest of their life happy.
Therein lies the problem. If you’re going to want to control somebody and make them your sex slave then do a controlling spell, call it that know it’s that and embrace it for what it is and don’t kid yourself that it’s anything less. The doubt you feel when you perform it and the guilt you’re feeling after it 99% of the time will fuck it and you up.
Would love to hear others input on this and hear from someone who has actually performed a real love spell.