This has more to do with lust than love. Have you ever ignored your intuition or guides multiple times and went after or smashed someone and then paid the price? How bad was it and what were the consequences?
I’ve been chatting to this girl who’s several hours a way and she seems decent enough but I was warned about her in a dream and yesterday she got pissed over a minor joke. So I’m on the fence about running while I can or taking a chance
In the last year or so I ignored the warnings or my guides and obvious red flags and slept with someone… the price was a nice pregnancy-scare and some obsessive thoughts and visions about this person. So yeah, pay attention to red flags and listen to your intuition.
I get it was going to edit my original post, but I’ll elaborate here.
Oftentimes your guide, intuition, or patron/matron deity/entity will get your attention the only way it knows how: by screaming at you via your subconscious.
To speak briefly from personal experience: I have had “intuition” step in before when I was trying to hook up with someone. Due to this I discovered they had been trying to deceive me in a way I found extremely disrespectful, despite the nature of our interaction, and it completely changed my opinion of the person. If intuition had not stepped in I probably would have continued associating with that person, blithely unaware of how repulsive their intentions were.
Is smashing this one particular person worth the potential headache of disentangling yourself from them a few weeks or months from now if things really go sideways? Ask yourself that and look to the dream you had. You clearly have doubts already, and there are plenty of other fish in the sea.
On the other hand, this is a forum dedicated to baneful work, so I’m sure if it goes tits-up you can always magick your way out of it.
Yikes. Yeah, I would pump the brakes for the time being and see how it plays out. If she does the same to someone else, or if she’s the kind of person who proclaims that every ex-partner or ex-lover just so happens to be “psycho” or “toxic” by her own estimation, then you have your answer.