Influence of planets

Hi, Im a big fat empath. its like i got a little redar at times. Now every time more or less if there is an eclipse or something big going on (especially moon) I dont have to be told (not that i generally do or keep up with planetary movments, alot of the time i find out the other way around lol) but i get severly down and moody/off balance and it effects me badly. Is there a way to lessen the impact that planatary movement reflect on people especially negatively especially empaths. Its not like i plan this to happen and also dread while going through these. I guess highering the vibration would help somewhat, but as im not physically well too it doesnt help either, and constantly being bombarded is not a solution and grounding does only so much for me unless im missing something?