If you create your own reality, how do you justify cursing someone?

Mr. Koetting it was stated in your videos more than once “you create your own reality.” If that’s really the case, how come you place curses on others? That doesn’t make sense. If you are the one who creates your own reality, then is it not you who is responsible for the negative situation? So if you’re the one ultimately responsible, why curse someone else?

PS: I hope the tone of this question is not too aggressive. I mean no disrespect. Please understand I am simply curious to your answer.