The post by @Ardax was quite nice, you can learn from that.
However, it seems like you are one the individuals who is able to see that there are problems in todays society. Of course you are not the first one who realized that and many people are working 80 hours a week 24/7 to change that.
But your view on sex isnt anything special. Ask anyone in the western/civilized world “Is sex the most important thing in life?” and they will of course answer “No”. Sexually frustrated people often times dont get it because their negative view obscures their view. There simply are certain “social games” as I would call it, that must be played, with the normal people of the masses, to achieve certain things. Either you are able to conform to that or you have to shine with something else. For example: dedication, pursuit of life goals, personality. Of course as you have mentioned yourself you can also use corruption: Money, power etc.
as if all we are programmed to do is mate, reproduce, and die.
That is because we Are programmed to do so. And the next step (that was done by many before) is to realize that, as you did, and act in another way. Thinking of bigger things, things that dont end 2 generations after you. Humanity did a good job in this, take a look where we are right now. Space shuttles, Nukes, Airplanes, Quantum Physics…etc. There is no way we could have made these things up if we were just focused on sex. Most people are, of course they are because they live like cattle. Consuming and reproducing, but thank God there are enough high-IQ individuals who work for humanitys progress. Either you are one of them or your a member of the cattle. Choose your side, but remember: if you are able to choose between these things you belong to the smart group.
We can’t find a happy fuckin medium?
We actually did. No one in the western/civilized world looks down on you for your sexual desires because nearly everyone can relate to you. The only people who see sex as something completely bad are extremists, even they often times worship traditionell/vanilla sex.
It seems like all life is about is lording something over someone else.
Yes for the stupid members of the cattle that is correct. Observe it, learn from it, do it better, that sets us apart from the masses.
Women are no different than trophies, symbols of status. Their traditionally valued for their beauty and innocence and paraded around like fancy cars and gold watches. On the flip side, men are valued only for their ability to succeed.
Yes the concept of men and women in todays society is hypocritical and broken, we have to do hard work to change that.
If anyone, man or woman, wants something different out of life, they’re often viewed as immoral.
They are more often celebrated for being altruistic or determined.
As for love, it can’t really exist in a society where one is pressured in marrying and raising kids.
Just wrong. Also remember: You are not oppressed, but you suppress yourself.
Even in a society where sex is basically everywhere, you can’t even go out and look for it, or at least doing so honestly. Oh yes, women posting sexy pics and even making videos on porn sites, and its so wrong for a guy to simply take notice. Yes, there are tons of guys who are disrespectful, but simply showing some attention when a woman puts her self out there shouldn’t be a bad thing. Yes, there is a right way to do so. And by the way, those same men who objectify women also mistreat other men. See below.
I do understand that. It would be just too nice if you could be direct with your intentions, but like I just wrote above, you have to play those stupid games to get people from the mainstream.
I suppose ethics is optional
They are optional and they always were. But the consequences are predictable.
I have no problem if someone wants to be attractive and/or have lots of sex.
Most people dont have a problem with that.
I want to be a unique entity in this universe, and even for a one night stand, by partner should be no different.
Finding a real fitting partner is a calculation and/or manipulation game. You have to go to places where like-minded people meet. You have to go out every weekend because the mathematical probability is really low. Or you find someone with a fitting basis. Then you come together and you start forming this person to your desires. In a Male-Female relationship that is normally the case.
This is the monster in its full glory. Right here. Look upon me and quake in fear for you behold the monster
Now you start to get silly None of these aspects get associated with a monster. Sounds more like a person with an 90+ IQ.
Who ever feels offended, oh well. Who ever feels inspired, then let your monster out.
Not offended But you simply need to know that everything depends on yourself. It is just a matter of will and self-reflection. You have to grow, your frustrations just hold you back.
Anger isnt the answer in a matter of love.