I am new to the occult studies, and I was wondering where a good place to start would be. I was told E.A Koetting was the top teacher for occult studies. i am looking for anything to help raise my confidence, and self-esteem, because I suffer from “nice guy” syndrome, which doesn’t help much where I live, with women, business, and life. Anyway, any suggestions would help me greatly. I am looking for book recommendations for: spell casting, seducing women, self-confidence. I would prefer anything except for summoning demons, because that seems extreme, and I may not be prepared for that.