A lot of things have happened between me and my “friends” lately. I’ve gone distant to them, because I’ve been shown by them numerous times that I don’t need them. However, there words say different.
It all started last year, when I had contracted mono. It’s a bad illness, I was sick for months. Only two of my friends supported me. I tried to talk to the one that was ignoring me, but she wouldn’t respond over the course of 1-2 weeks. It turned out that she was dragging out a problem that was resolved in five minutes - only weeks later.
It’s nearly been a year, and the reason I’ve become distant with them is I can’t have a convo with them, without it spinning back to them in some way. They only message when something is wrong, or they have nothing better to do. When I’m responded by the last friend, he’s questioning me and is doubting me.
I’ve blocked one of them two years ago, because she said some hurtful things to me. It didn’t go well, so i can’t do that again. She cried for weeks apparently, but everyone kept telling her to suck it up and apologise. She even refused to at one point.
They say they believe in love and light. It doesn’t go well if I block them, or if I told them what they were doing. How else can I dump these people?