So this is the first time I’ll be using the evocation methods described on here. I want to get any questions I’m unsure about beforehand. Using other methods previously I’ve had success with communication. It was the demon Abyzou. I’ve contacted through ritual twice before, and she’s visited me a couple times in the following weeks immediately after each time. I haven’t seen her in years.
I plan on evoking her again. But the last time I requested her help, I think my request as I states / wrote may have been very specific and for lack of a better term, air tight. I was extremely untrusting at the time and worried about unintended negative consequences. She did end up helping me the first time, but was unable to the second time due to stipulations I put in place. When she visited me the following weeks the emotions I got from her was increasingly begrudging and intense jealousy. She visited me months later the first opportunity she could do so within the bounds of the terms I didn’t forsee. She absolutely left her mark, not necessarily in a malicious way but in a way that I was unprepared for. It took months to recover fully. But I have no doubt in my mind it was her.
I need her help again and want to ask for help on respectful trusting terms. And truth be told, I need to see her again. She was unforgettable.
When performing evocations and making requests how specific are your terms if any? How can I show trust and respect? How can I protect myself from being charmed and being heart broken again?
Thank you for any advice and help you can provide!