sorry this was meant to be a reply to the main thread
I think of it as opposite.
When you get control of your desires and balance it that’s when the energy center can be balanced. The desire elimination comes before the energy.
Let me give you my reference experience:took me a year to get a sort of mastery ( not mastery but like a 6/10 mastery, mastery takes a while))
– also i could only do this once every few days in the beginning by the end of the year it was like 5-8 times a day. ( its also a form of kundalini exercise)
I used to get aroused very easily and my body would reflect it in the nethers, and I would feel an energetic movement internally that would be related. not to the nethers but a specificmovement.
a spirit who I still have not been able to identify, maybe not even a spirit at all but my own subconscious. provided me an exercise to the tune of:
- whenever you get the physical reaction of arousal it starts as a thought, so trace the thought back. I started tracing the thought back to the point where I would see a woman and then watch my mind and body go through motions until i was physically aroused. Then I started to imagine the energetic movement while cutting the chain of progression that led to arousal.
So I would see a woman, I would clench the prostate gland and associated muscle ( it took time to learn to control bladder and piss stream to get control of this muscle in all its finer areas). Before my body could react, I induced a meditative state or a lesser version of one ( again a trained skill), relaxed my body.
and then I would redirect the energy upwards, to what felt like two lines paralell to my spine. by breathing an imagining the energy going up. it always revealed itself to me as a yellowish gold glow.
Now after a year of practice of it, I ceased having sexual desires in my body, but in my mind i did not. So in order to get up I had to get energetically aroused, or really do something kinky so my mind would get aroused psychologically**. What happened was that I discovered the energetic feeling of being sexually aroused, and separated it from my body. I think this is how people have sex with spirits and it is the essence of tantric sex.
But ui trained my body and mind so that everytime my body would want to get sexually aroused, I would feel the energy travel up the two lines and the spine after some time. and then it gave me a sort of a high as well. as well as a cloak feeling of energy.
this also gave me ridiculous sexual mastery. I orgasm’d multiple times a day and didn’t ejaculate for about 6 months was the longest i went.
Then I added masturbation and using this to create stronger energy and preserve it. its a tantric or taoist technique from the studies i did trying to understand what the f i had stumbled upon. _
and sexual energy is a very potent form which can be used to pretty much anything. From cursing to healing to just making yourself high
Again erratic organization so sorry, but just msg me on here or DM if you want any clarification