I have a question about a situation that seems to be happening. Basically I have been doing healing exercises and rituals for a while now due to complicated ptsd and more problems.
A lot of it has been uncovering repressed emotions and trying my best to come to terms with it by talking or writing or some other beneficial way. It has helped a lot.
I am trying to work through experiences I had with a father figure type I had. I’ll call him R. I also have had trauma with my own father before R but I am trying to forgive my dad because he has become a better person over the years. My father was never a predator.
Now I am facing stuff about R and it is bringing up a lot of stuff. I am noticing a link that seems to be affecting my biological dad. His health is being affected. It has happened about 3 times where I was experiencing extreme emotional pain and my dad is getting sick. I don’t want my dad to get hurt, so is there some way to protect him? The only common thing is the two people are father figures, but R is a real predator.