My “better” or “other half” is one reason I want my spell casting, especially now, to be error free, done my the book or even perfect, is that I have someone to share my life with, and for all the things I put into my spell cast the other night, I actually worry that I’m not doing it right, or doing enough to manifest itself.
There is no point for doing these unless I can share it with him. Yes, I cast spells, make offerings and like like for myself, very much so when I’m attempting to scry with he flames and smoke, but now, that I have felt “that old feeling” where I begin got doubt myself and whether or not the spell worked and will manifest, just ruins my confidence, no matter how much I study, meditate or make sandwiches about. or over. I need the confidence and, yes expediency of knowing that I was heard and my spell will manifest itself asap.
By nature, I am impatient, very much so with this. I know I need to relax and get my mind off of it, but my my partner is coming home from deployment in about a month and a half, and I want to dazzle him with great things. He’s been deployed on peacekeeping in USCENTCOM (aka Africa) and living as a soldier in austere conditions for over a year. I don’t doubt him coming home will be all he wants or needs, but I want to surprise him in a big way. Its a mutual thing, my LHP work and his service to the country. I’m am vet of Desert Shield/Desert Storm, so we’ve both endured the hot weather for far too long, and being so far away from home, we both relish coming home. I just want to give him something special as I had no one or anything when I came back but only the pre- Don’t Ask Don’t Tell stigma and ostracizing facing my every move alone with a HUGE fear of everything, everyone, etc. He deserves much better when coming home to me. He didn’t have to deal with all I did, but being over there with IED’s and terrorism has its own toll on a person.
What is it that I can do now to further the chance to have my spell manifest itself, and, also, what can I do to eliminate once and for all my dreaded feelings that come after a spell-casting, or back in the day, my prayers?
Someone please give me some advice that’s practical.