Or can i re use them?
Half the time I don’t use them. The other half I use tea lights and reuse them if they aren’t burnt out. Maybe… 3% of the time I do a ritual I have dedicated candles for and want to see what comes out of the wax
You do not need new candles for every ritual. That would be cost prohibitive for most people.
The only time a candle cannot be reused is if it is charged with an intention ie used for a candle spell.
I read how toxic some candles are. I would say go first with beeswax, then soy based. Try to avoid paraffin candles if you can.
It depends. I often let the candle burn down for a spirit, particularly if I have an altar for them. But also if it’s a large candle, I’ll let it burn for a while then blow it out, then reuse it for another ritual when needed.
I usually use votives or tealights, but even an electronic candle will work.
No, just spells where the candle itself plays an integral part.
I heard you shouldn’t do that because some people view as being disrespectful or something? I have a candle snuffer from the dollar store I use.
One or more candles may be used for more than one working, I thought the same about a recent topic regarding altars… save for exception, of course. For example it depends on the rituals, and maybe one current, some entities interest more than others; so one isn’t inclined to “go complete/neutral”.
I have a black candle I use for everything and mostly for light and a gateway depending on what I am doing. I empowered it to absorb negative energy that was attached to me for a cleansing and uncrossing I did on myself. After which I cleansed the candle and made it neutral again and have been using it since. If I am healing I let the candle being used burn or toss it when I am done, but otherwise I use the same candles for multiple things. I used to snuff them out following that idea but it never felt right, I always felt like I was oppressing the energy instead of releasing it. Since I started blowing out candles I have had better experiences and the energy feels 100x better.
Spirits aren’t stupid. They know when I intend to be disrespectful and when I don’t. I blow them out because I don’t have my snuffer to hand - I misplaced it and I haven’t gotten around to buying a new one. Only once has the lwa gently and with a smile told me I really should snuff the candle out - and my response was, sure, but not with my fingers! They were fine with that. All other spirits have never complained to me about it.