Hey guys. For a while I have been living with someone (I’ll call him Lucius) who I already know is a Defcon 5 narcissist. I have plans for him, but they can not be deployed until right before we move out (in about a month).
The problem is how to best neutralize him while we still live here. Today he started in early and just hammered away. He went out for a bit then when he came back, he started up again ( literally within 30 seconds of walking in the door). He’s never been this bad. I really don’t care since I’m working toward moving out soon, but since my mindset has changed I just really don’t want to deal with it anymore.
A couple of facts that may matter:
Andras is my guardian and I have asked him to not mess with Lucius’ home as long as we are living with him. Andras protects us and since he has appointed that for himself I think he should be left to it.
The day before we move out I’m going to do the Insidious curse that EA shared. I decided not to do it while we were still living here because I did not want to get caught up in any collateral damage.
He is advanced in his years and recently had (insignificant) surgery. However, I am not anxious to do something that would put him back in the hospital because that would put more on me and my son.
I have recently discovered NAP and found Butterball’s Offensive Armor Ritual, which means that I can include Lucius in with my husband. The only thing that I’m concerned about is that it might take a lot of time to start. He runs his mouth a lot and his goal is to get into our heads and make us feel like shit about ourselves. He has a really bad history which is why I’m doing the Insidious curse on him once we move out (a great many people will have better lives). I just want him to shut his fucking mouth while we are still living here.
He’s a misogynist and I am a female. I can’t go into any more detail or else it would be very easy to realize who he was if someone came across this. He put his female dog down not because she was sick or anything, but because she was old and when he came home she didn’t jump around (I’m going to get the vet who did it, too).
Ignoring him and/or giving him oatmeal flavored responses rarely works because he’s desperate for laughs and any other positive responses that other kinds don’t work. I am drained after years of doing this. The old me was able to walk that line, but I can’t do it anymore.
P.S. Ending him can’t happen while we live here, hence the Insidious curse. I’m not averse to it, but it can’t happen while we live here.