That could be good or a bad thing depending on how compatible you are.
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Make a dreamboard or write out those qualities and materialize it 
Also i resonate with everything you said except Old school music I listen to edm and hardstyle 
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you know I did that a couple years ago and had it in my room like hung up on the wall and nada so after a few years I took it down and didnāt bother againā¦love edm too and all the pre-edm genres like techno and garage 
Gonna def do another dreamboard thanks for the suggestion I did a lot of work love wise on myself over the past yr hoping something great will manifest soonā¦two readings here said positive things and also said I will be involved with a serious magician
What are you doing to attract your twin flame?
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Dreamboard and visualization , Iāve been spamming the universe for years with my order but external circumstance always prevents it , but recently I have found some work really important to me so I guess it was making me wait , it seems a relationship requires lots of energy expenditure and universe didnāt want me to get lazy , so dreamboard and being grateful for it already , I usually drive to a nice spot at night and visualize my dreams and desires
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You have too magnetize it with your emotion , be grateful for the item , Iāve seen lots of signs and also manifested 3/9 things in a year
lol Iām glad the universe has been working with you. Relationships do take a lot of energy and analysis I guess thatās why there are far more topics here with people desperately trying to get back their ex instead of finding a new love. I personally like to expend the energy if I love someone which is why a talented reader here I think detected that and warned me to be careful of putting more into the next relationship than the other person. True on the gratefulness too sometimes we already have the twin flame around us and we cant see it due to ingratitude. 
so kinda in the movies where we see ppl drive to like a mountain side toss a blanket and signal it out.
Def going to get the board going again I have a small whiteboard that is just sitting down gonna hang it in my room.
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I donāt need him to be into magick, I simply want a certain lifestyle that will allow me to practice my beliefs discreetly. I have dated a magician before, and my most recent love interest hangs around witches. I donāt know if he actually practices or not. I am not open about my beliefs, but I do have a distinctively bedecked aesthetic.
I think that both casual and serious relationships have their place in the world. I personally had never really been able to date casually, men try to drag me to the altar at their first chance and I hardly ever meet someone who is just into lighter stuff. I have to fight in order to not be prematurely locked down.
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I have only dated one person in my early years who was into magick. She was Wiccan, and I was just getting into ceremonial magick. She thought the Unicursal Hexagram was āSatanicā but other than that, she supported my pursuit.
All in all, though, dating a magical person was no different than dating a non magical person. If they truly love you, they will support your practices regardless.
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Not a matter of respect. Some people donāt know what live socialization is. Iām talking about those already establish being a couple or friends. They text as communication instead of talking to each other. They grew up with text and social media being the norm. They never played out in the parks, hide and seek, tag, outdoor ymca club activities that involve groups of people. They were born in the tech world. They donāt know what a phone concept is. They text instead of calling to hear voice.
One canāt really know a person unless live interaction. The persona they have through text is not their true self. Itās like a mask. Itā really hard to know the real person if not in person. Yet, many donāt realize that. So they will forever be superficial and complain that they canāt find good people cuz they arenāt socializing properly. Texting is just a fast modern version of pen pal. Whatās the point of texting if your not gonna properly get to know people in person? Itās just a waste of time in my opinion to use text as means to know someone as itās not true person. That was my argument for these new tech generation addicts folks. There is so many misunderstanding using text to communicate. Too many gaps and time distortion with no live feedback interaction. You canāt really have a real relationship if you donāt interact in person. It then become epal or electronic pals of sorts.
I donāt really want to bother with people who donāt do live interaction and is only text or email. I find it waste of time if thatās their go to way to know people. I tend to focus on in person meeting. If they arenāt up for that. I gots no time for texting addicts as it shows they arenāt serious.
You canāt develop social skills or people skills if its not in person which is useful for your career that involve working with people.
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@wisepup I hear ya but I think youāre being too rigid although you may also think iām being too rigid 
I say that to say texting etc. can be a very good buffer but I do acknowledge that a lot can get lost in translation with these virtual forms of communication. Remember though there is video calling. How can someone not be serious who dedicated significant time out of their day to communicate with you?
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I agree with this, although that does not mean they always agree with it. There have been plenty of times my wife asked if something I was about to do was a good idea, as I tend to push my luck (not always resulting in my favor). But in the end, she trusts me and supports my decisions.
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I get you. Iām talking about those who use text to the extreme. Not ones that use it occasionally. they arenāt serious if they donāt meet in person. texting is so fast and easy. Itās not like a whole conversation. No in depth interaction just bits here and there. They may be serious as epals not real social interaction. Some people are ok with the support of epals and donāt need live interaction. Itās a way to rope you on a string without spending time with you until they want something in person. Or they use you as info research or as an advice person. More like networking then socialization. Double edge sword.
Thereās a term called textationship where text is the main means to communicate to connect intimately/romantically through text. I donāt want that. I want relationship: that means live in person socialization.
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For me I honestly am just living life. Do I want a relationship that is fulfilling and healthy with a person that is accepting of me and my beliefs more over even Interested in similar things?? Of course! Do I see that happening to me right now. No. Unfortunately. Am I letting that keep me from living my life and bettering my self as a whole to get into a stable and long lasting relationship? Hell no. Lol.
People tell me all the time to get a boyfriend. Welp I tried that and it always ends terrible. Why? Because I myself was a very confused individual that was lost. So naturally thatās what I attracted. So now Iām simply am just focusing on my growth and life. Making it as good as I can get it.
Life is to short to waste my time on a boyfriend or girl friend. What do I find more beneficial to me? A relationship that can last a year or so or one that can possibly last longer then life. Itās obvious which one
But itās true. Despite all of us longing to have that perfect boyfriend or girlfriend that practices and do stuff with āOh hey hun, donāt forget the ritual tonight that we have planned for Lucifer. We still need to go to the store to grab some tea light candles oh and more milk!ā Gods that be hilarious, but really by having such strict standards your limiting your self quite a bit. Instead try and think more open. You can still have a long lasting and healthy relationship with some one that is not only simply interested in the occult but also other things. Iām sure you do more things then simply rituals all the time. :3
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People who says āget a bf/gfā donāt know how superficial they are. People are not objects, you just donāt get one like itās an object. They need to word it differently like ā you are better to find someone supportive of your life to explore and evolve togetherā. Thatās what is a meaningful relationship in my opinion. Dontāt even have to be romantic ones. It can be good friends too.
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Like seriously ,I will love to date a woman who is into the Occult. I went through a messy divorce when my ex wife found out I was into the Occult. So any mature lady out there, Dont hesitate to say Hi to me.
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I have just read this topic and found some of your comments very interesting. I am like most of you on here who feel that live socialisation is the best way to get to know someone. Being with them physically allows your energy field to interact with theirs and from that you can subtly determine if you are going to be compatible with them. Also texts can sometimes be misconstrued, regardless of using punctuation and/or emojis. Being with someone physically you can obsereve their body language and really determine if they are genuine even through very subtle micro-experssions.
I have been in love a few times, however they werenāt quite my soul mate. The last woman I had a relationship was very close. She was an a amazing woman. She was a healer, very beautiful, intelligent, spiritual and passionate. Unfortunately I ended it as I started to go through some bad shit and I didnāt want to drag her and daughter down. I know it sounds like a cop out but I had seen what was coming and how I would be acffected by it. I know we shouldnāt have regrets but I let go of a woman who was just so beautiful both internally and externally.
I agree with most of you on here that whoever wants to be with you should accept you for who you are. If you are going to change do it to better yourself not because someone has said otherwise. I guess it would be great to find someone who is into magick and has that connection with as well as being your soul mate. The exchange of energy in all levels with someone you truly love is truly amazing and beautiful and empowers you both. My advice based on my own experience is donāt go looking. The right person will come into your life when you least expect it
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Bruised fruit is often the sweetest!
Al.
You know, as an aspiring Magician, using a Magickal forum, I would have thought that Magick could be used to find romantic interests with similar interests. Thereās material on these boards concerning a lovely demoness called Naamah.
Al.
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I wish I could find a good woman that folows the LHP. It seems like it would be so benificial in every way.
But see it still there for the forseeable future, and not ready to dump them, chop and change, at any point in time for their convenience. Because thats not respect even its not serious right?