I am coming here for abit of advice because I know “the female” who holds my chokechain will never see this.
1- Anyone here in counseling or therapy? During the xmas time I was at my youngest daughters. in front of the female did i actually " think I do not need Therapy!!!" thank hellz for her 4 dogs who managed to interupt as i sat there with the dumbest look ever and jaw secure on the floor!! My brain was screaching “YESSSSS!!!” like a choir of tweeker banshees. But did she think , Really, that I would posit an answer with the female arms length away and hours of car ride home???
2- i recently found out, i am owned by a Severe “Malignant Narcissist”- I just though she had some of her mothers mental illness- just a Generation more advanced and skilled. but Mal/Narcs- are a real thing… and not just horrid assholes. now, she is also to some degree aware she is also- [which only gives them more ammo]