I’m friends with a married couple who’ve been married for fifteen years and are almost forty years of age. He loves his wife dearly, as she loves him. However, in the past seven years or so, sex is completely boring for him, even when it happens (which is rare - once a month at best). He tells me she is not interested in sex at all (despite him being somewhat attractive), doesn’t like to think about it, and never speaks of it. She has become a seeming impenetrable iceberg. He does not want to cheat on her, and also doesn’t want to leave her because they have several children together, whom they love dearly. He is actually a very liberal minded man who would love to explore his sexuality further, but she is a huge obstacle for him.
I’m thinking about performing a working of lust to ignite in her an insatiable desire. Any suggestions on a working in particular? Any input in general about the motive here, etc?