So when it comes to “attraction” spells, they seem to come in two extremes. Forcing a particular someone to take an interest in you and attracting someone random who’d be open to you. I’m looking for something in the middle.
There’s a common trope where someone may not make the best first impression, but at some point some quality of their’s shows that makes them more attractive to a potential partner. I’m looking for something like that, a way to make my better attributes come out, not just for the perceptions of others but myself. I can’t expect anyone to see or believe something that I don’t.