AI is useless for magick: it’s training is the entire internet and most of that is fiction and games. Read actual grimoires.
Asmoday is from the grimoure the Ars Goetia, of which there are many good versions and spin off grimoires. I suggest you get a copy of one of those. I like Corwin Hargrove’s Goetia Pathworking as very beginner freindly. If you use the search for “book recommendations collection” you’ll find a thread that links to a few of this forums pists about good books.
I would say Asmoday is more about relationships. It sings to me like you need an entity that has the offices of healing. Asmoday is not so much a healer as a teacher and bringer of opportunity.
Common healing entities are Marbas, Raphael, Ebuhuel (from the Angels of Omnipotence book).
It’s probably just thunder being thunder, but if you felt confused by it, take it and run with it.
Overall it sounds like you don’t have your health up to spec. I would suggest a healing entity and starting to get educated on your own health. Get a vitamin and mineral and common biomarkers from having your bloodwork done to check for bssics like vitamin deficiencies, You can oreder these cheap yourself now from places like labcorp. Check testosterone levels and stress hormones, check your sleep and nutrition - there’s very common issues you can get just with these that inhibit libido. E.g., adrenal fatigue.
When you’re not well and stressed, the body tends to drop libido first as it assumes that means the environment must be bad for raising babies, and diverts resources to survival instead.
As mages, the foundation of developing our systems towards ascension is a strong and healthy body. A strong body leads to a strong mind. (And also more sex) You don’t have to bench 400 but your hormones drive your desires as much as your genes and nurture do, so any magickal work there needs to be supported by taking care of the physical first.