I had a friend of several years pass away recently. I keep going back and forth on whether or not I want to reach out to him to tell him that I miss him and say goodbye. Maybe I’m looking for closure that way, but I always decide not to because I don’t want to disturb him. He had some issues in life that he needed to work through, and I hope in his rest he can reflect and learn as he prepares for his next incarnation. I don’t want to mess up him moving on in his existence. And then I return to feeling the need to drop him a line. I keep going back and forth with it.
If anyone has felt this id love to hear your decision and what lead you to it, how it went, ect.
Ive felt the same way. I was hesitant on disturbing my friend but one night i traveled to the astral plane and thought about contacting him and made the choice to do it. It was a very good and emotional experience since i never got to say goodbye and he passed at the age of twelve and i was a year older than him.Before that ive always wanted to but never made the conscious decision. Do what feels right in your heart. Thats the only time ive called on a deceased human spirit. Other deceased spirits come to me at night but i never directly contacted them. Just wanted to share that experience.
I actually found him via the energies around the cremated ashes of the dog that we had when he was still alive.
Basically, the dog got old and passed on, and was cremated and put into a pet-urn. I felt the energies around the ashes and followed the trail, found the dog, then followed her and she led me to him.
It was super trippy, but it was undoubtedly him.
If you have a strong shared link, you should be able to scry/project and follow the link directly.
I talk with my dead cat all the time. However, my cat was a familiar, a Shalicu tunnel demon incarnated as a cat, so it is super easy for me to contact him.
Just recently this past Saturday i evoked my daughter for my wife and i, so that we could say our goodbye and how much she means to us still. It gave us the closure that we needed so we could heal and move on from the tragedy that happened. I would say do it if you truly need that closure for your healing process…
As a necromancer, its tradition for me to contact the spirits of lost relatives and animals. Sometimes I transcribe their funeral in max detail, and spend an hour or 2 relaying all the messages and stuff. Almost every time it brings them peace and I guide them to either staying in the spirit planes for eternity or reincarnation. Over the years I have also kept my dead friends, familiars and family up to date on all the events on my life. Since if the energy is still there I can. The animals and familiars almost always loved their owners, and sometimes ask to come back. In those scenarios I guide them to a new body, then the owners gravitate towards them.
I’ve always been weary of the effects of regular exposure to the death current. How do you keep those energies from bleeding into your life and potentially causing problems?