My ex spouse is aware they are a psychic vampire at this point.
Normally, I’d just avoid them, but we have a kid together so that’s not really an option.
Being generally exhausted, it’s hard for me to come up with a solution that doesn’t involve my ex going to years of therapy.
The root of the problem is their obnoxious victim mentality. It’s always someone else’s fault and so on. Also borderline personality disorder among other things.
The whole complex results in them sucking the life out of everything, and they can’t seem to handle watching the kid for one weekend out of two weeks (at this point, I’m probably just venting).
Maybe with a little more sleep, I could come up with something, but I’m curious about what this forum thinks.