Hello everyone, I wanted to throw two cents into this love thingy in general, which is like close to %50 of why newbies come here.Its either an ex or a crush.
About crushes,use magick if you see it as neccesary.Its no different than using your financial statues nor its different than using make up and dressing well to get the advantage over the competitors.Of course its my opinion only.I don’t see love spells as rape either.Because in magick, a good willpower can overpower your magick instead of rapes scenarios which we know there is mostly physical force or some drugs are used.
Don’t be offended, thats my opinion.I think love spells are fine to use.What does magick used that is for wordly gains is to improvise on possibility of a desired outcome.
Now about these ex things,nothing I will say will be something new since this has been told uncountable times by this point but hear me out.
I have been there too.You think this person is the one (how many have you dated though?) and the only.You guys are meant to be yes? And, why is he/she your ex right now exactly? Have you ever asked yourself this? Why do you want this person back? Was it your fault or are you scared to get out of your comfort zone? Only you know the answer.
Worst kind is cheating.Can you explain to yourself why do you want someone who saw you inferior to another person and haven’t had the slightest dignity to tell you about situation and cheated on behind you? What is wrong with you?
Why are you chasing the bus you have missed? Wait enough and next bus will come surely.Do whatever you want with your life, hell, even murder your ex if thats what you want, fine by me, but why are you inviting misery? Why do you do this to yourself?
I won’t even say love yourself first but have the tools neccesary to go out of your comfort zones.
TL;DR:Water is wet.