Just seeking advice… All are welcome to offer their opinion.
I am in a relationship with a person whom I fell hard for. This guy had everything, magnetic personality, charm, sexual chemistry off the charts. The issue is he only calls me when he needs something. He is not sexually monogamous, neither am I so that isn’t the issue. He has a regular “Friends with Benefits” whom I just cannot stand for some reason. This guy is covered in negativity and for some reason my love interest is enamored with him.
We have friends in common and he is always bragging about the great sex, he takes him to parties, all his friends know him etc. He’s told me several times that he is not in love with this guy but I’m convinced he is. I know that the FWB wants a relationship with my friend but my friend has told him “I am not a relationship person”. He’s also told me that even though they are friends he and his FWB do not see eye to eye on so many levels, he loves me because I’m smart, and we have similar interests. I have asked him why he wont introduce me to his friends and he says that he doesn’t want his friends to know about me because I am married and he is embarrassed. I get it, and I stopped pushing the issue.
My issue now is the constant use and degradation. When he is with his buddy he will not text, call or any communication. If he and I go to dinner he will be on his phone checking text messages, checking his Grindr app etc.
I still love him, actually I was in love with him at one point but now I am just getting tired of the bullshit.
I could curse him but there’s a catch, he suffers from MS and I don’t feel he deserves more shit on him. I think I also inadvertently cursed him, from the rage of an argument we had one time due to his buddy, this in turn caused 3 new lesions to form on his brain. It may or may not have been me, who knows.
I know I also cursed his FWB, the kid has had nothing but a run of horrible luck. I can honestly say I totally despise this kid, and I don’t even know him.
He has also been so nasty to me recently, I sent him a text a few days ago asking if he was okay because I had not heard anything from him all day Saturday. His reply to me was “I don’t have to fk!ng text you if I don’t want to, so get that right”
My questions is, as simple as it sounds, what the hell should I do?
I want him to hurt the way I feel hurt, yeah am I butt sore? Perhaps.
I was going to create a spell to make his FWB finally meet and fall in love with another guy, thereby leaving him alone.
I’d appreciate any advice, comments or even suggestions for magick.
Thank you all in advance.