I am unsure if this is the correct terminology for these people,but it is a problem I have had for many years.
There is something I give off which means the emotionally unstable seem to want to really talk to me and are drawn to me.
If I go to a party, I guarantee the one suicidal person in the room latches onto me. The nutter on the Bus always ends up talking to me. I have people like this all of the time and it is draining.
I have no idea why, I must look approachable or something but whilst I do have empathy, I just want to be invisible to these people really most days. How can I block whatever it is I am giving out and repel this?